Is it Broken?

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The problem isn’t always that we don’t know how to get out of a bad situation, but that we don’t want to accept that we are in a bad situation. We tell ourselves that everything is fine. The truth is everything isn’t and can never be fine, that’s simply not how life works; and yes, it’s great to focus on the positives, but you cannot ignore the things that are eating you up inside. Whatever the problem may be, the first step to dealing with it is acknowledging that it exists. 

Recently I have found myself in situations that simply aren’t my fault, all delusion and pride aside, I had either no or very little part to play in the unfortunate series of events, because of this it hadn’t occurred to me that I had a problem that needed fixing because no part of me felt responsible. But I can’t rely on the remorseful actions of others to improve my life and it was obvious to everyone around me that something had changed and not for the better. I know what it is I need to do; I just have to accept that it is broken so that I can fix it.

You may find that you’re falling back into a place that you’ve been in before, possibly numerous times before and you just don’t want to admit that somehow you have allowed yourself to return.  As sad as this may be, there has to be a reason why you keep ending up in this situation. It could just be chance, but it’s unlikely. Don’t dwell in denial, we can’t always be where it is we’d like to be doing what it is we’d like to do, life is full of setbacks, stay focused on how to keep moving forward. 

Accept it. Check yourself. Fix it.

Easier said than done, trust me I know, I write this hoping to help someone else without having even successfully found a way to help myself. But I was recently reminded that not all of the battles I’m currently fighting are new, there are some that I have had to face over and over again, and I have overcome them over and over again, so there’s no reason why this time should be any different. The real battle is making sure I fight them off for good.

I encourage you to take a look at your life, assess the areas where things are going well, where it is you seem to be growing and progressing and think about why that is. Then take a look at the things that are pretty stagnant, or getting worse off, and be honest with yourself, is it broken?

Tisha x

  9 comments for “Is it Broken?

  1. May 19, 2017 at 3:38 pm

    I love how you said you were writing this amid not knowing if you’d helped yourself. I struggle with that type of thing too in so many situations in life, too.

    • TishaKimiira
      May 19, 2017 at 3:45 pm

      Glad im not alone lol! usually by the time i’m done I’ve managed to clear my head at least. Thank you for reading x

  2. May 19, 2017 at 5:12 pm

    Self examination and reflection is a sign of maturity and great self-care practice.

  3. May 19, 2017 at 6:53 pm

    The last sentence of thenfirst paragraph was straight barz!!!! “Whatever the problem may be, the first step to dealing with it is acknowledging that it exists. ”

    I love that!

    • TishaKimiira
      May 19, 2017 at 7:09 pm

      Glad you liked it! Thank you so much for reading!

  4. May 20, 2017 at 2:11 am

    ‘The real battle is making sure I fight them off for good.’ I’m in a very similar boat right now. You’ll be on the brighter side of things soon! Hang in there! Things will definitely get better.

    • TishaKimiira
      May 20, 2017 at 8:51 am

      Thank you so much for that! & for reading 💙

  5. Anonymous
    May 20, 2017 at 6:01 am

    Thank you for this. I needed this myself. I’m working changing my situation as we speak. I know that I can be my own worst enemy and obstacle.

    • TishaKimiira
      May 20, 2017 at 8:51 am

      All the best! Thank you for reading 💙

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